Traumatic Narcissism Theory

"Daniel Shaw’s work on traumatic narcissism is a gift to all of us who care about our own and others’ mental health. Therapists, counselors, educators, and people who have been on the receiving end of the dynamics he describes will appreciate Shaw’s unwavering determination to understand destructive narcissistic processes as he casts a psychoanalytic searchlight on a notoriously dark human space. Those of us who have worked with clients suffering narcissistic abuse often feel painfully inadequate as we witness the relentless damage to their self-esteem and even their sense of reality. This beautifully written book is the antidote to that sense of helplessness. I intend to recommend it to all my colleagues as well as some of my patients.

Nancy McWilliams, PhD, ABPP, Visiting Professor Emerita, Rutgers Graduate School of Applied & Professional Psychology.

"In his penetrating and timely study, Daniel Shaw offers a compelling and urgently needed psychoanalytic account of traumatizing narcissism – one that speaks with equal power to clinicians and general readers. Drawing on his unique personal experience as a former cult member, together with decades of clinical practice and a deep command of psychoanalytic theory, Shaw brings unmatched authority to a subject that devastates so many lives.

This book is a tour de force, extending beyond traditional diagnostic categories to formulate an original Traumatic Narcissism Theory. Shaw carefully maps how malignant narcissists develop and preserve their delusions of omnipotence by subjugating others, illuminating their developmental pathways and their destructive enactments in parenting, family life, and leadership. He ranges widely – through history, biography, literature, mythology, and even scripture – yet writes with clarity and elegance that make his insights accessible. The result is a work of both breadth and depth, offering survivors a path to reclaim dignity and freedom."

Kenneth Frank, Author, Psychoanalytic Participation: Action, Interaction, and Integration.

"In this remarkably concise and brilliantly argued book, psychoanalyst Dan Shaw provides us with an overview of Traumatic Narcissism Theory.Based on decades of clinical work, Shaw offers psychotherapists and those subjugated by narcissists insight for understanding and pathways to recovery from the prison of shame and fear that narcissistic abuse often engenders."

Ilene Philipson, Psychoanalyst, Sociologist, and Author, On the Shoulders of Women: The Feminization of Psychotherapy.

"There could be no better time than now for this relevant and pertinent book. Shaw not only helps us understand the techniques used by narcissists to exploit and harm others but also, and perhaps even more important, he illustrates from both personal and professional experience how clinicians can better serve victims of traumatic narcissistic abuse and help them heal."

Janja Lalich, Author,Take Back Your Life: Recovering From Cults and Abusive Relationships.

"Dan Shaw’s new book, Traumatic Narcissism Theory,is part of the contemporary introduction to psychoanalysis series that Routledge offers. Contemporary introduction works promise clarity of thought, language, and conception. Shaw’s book certainly meets and in some ways exceeds these expectations. Jargon is used sparingly and, when introduced, is elucidated in clear, understandable, accessible terms often supported by poignant case illustration. His is a book about the devastating trauma of subjugation. While he takes great care to describe the dynamics of a personality he refers to as a traumatizing narcissist, his primary focus is upon individuals who have endured the rape of personhood which narcissistic predation occasions. He turns aside suggestion that such people ought to be labeled narcissists themselves (so-called vulnerable narcissists), instead directing his attention to the humanity they are capable of demonstrating in the treatment work that he has undertaken with them. His conception of his treatment effort opens important new therapeutic options/perspectives with this group of people."

Richard Wood, Author,A Study of Malignant Narcissism: Personal and Professional Insight.