In Love with Love
The Persistence and Joy of Romantic Fiction
Format:Hardback
Publisher:Hodder & Stoughton
Published:6th Nov '25
Should be back in stock very soon
This hardback is available in another edition too:
- Hardback - Signed Edition£16.99(9781399749220-S)

'This book is funny, wise, and joyfully obsessed with its subject'
MONICA HEISEY'Endlessly witty, breathtakingly clever, a book you'll read in one sitting'CAROLINE O'DONOGHUE'Risbridger writes about the romance novel with the care and attention of a romantic hero'SARVAT HASINSmart, funny and passionate: An ode to a beloved genre and a brilliantly insightful piece of cultural criticismCowboys and aliens, dukes and dancers, power dynamics, death and domesticity, vampires and veterans, tradwives and single dads and sisters and small-town politics, private jets and princes and horses, hopes and dreams and fears, and so, so much kissing: this is a love letter to romantic fiction, but it's also a book about creativity and creation and the job of art in this crazy old world.Why do we read? Why do we write? What makes some books last forever, and others vanish from memory? What is the point of everything, anything, when everything - especially romantic love - is so fleeting in the grand scheme of things? How do we love when the world is falling apart? And what does it mean that love is the one subject of which we never seem to tire?Part literary criticism, part investigation, total passion project, In Love with Love is a wild tour from the very beginnings of kissing in books through historic trends, favourite tropes, beloved friends and brand-new loves, from Jane Austen to Jasmine Guillory, Jilly Cooper to Georgette Heyer, from the depths of the ocean to the furthest reaches of the outer galaxy . . .I am, appropriately, completely smitten with In Love With Love by Ella Risbridger, which is a literary and deeply heartfelt exploration of an under-appreciated genre. It is heaven from start to finish. Risbridger writes like the cleverest, funniest, most moving, most warm-hearted angel. Everyone's getting it for Christmas -- India Knight * The Times *
There's no one I trust on love more than Ella Risbridger. This book is funny, wise, and joyfully obsessed with its subject -- Monica Heisey, author of Really Good, Actually
A celebration of romantic fiction, its rich history and many forms, taking both a literary and personal approach to a genre that is so often disparaged * i Paper *
Endlessly witty, breathtakingly clever, a book you'll read in one sitting and then quote at dinner parties forever. Risbridger writes with a warmth and an expertise that is deeply earned yet lightly held -- Caroline O'Donoghue, author of The Rachel Incident
This passionate and profound love letter to the love story will make any romance reader's heart beat a little faster -- Sarra Manning * Red Magazine *
The love letter the genre deserves -- Mhairi McFarlane, author of Cover Story
Mills & Boon novels of every stripe are accorded the kind of sustained attention more usually given to Proust, while Judith Butler's theories of gender are buttressed by a deft analysis of Rupert Campbell-Black, caddish hero of the Rutshire chronicles by the late, great Jilly Cooper -- Kathryn Hughes * Guardian *
A joyful and brilliant book by a joyful and brilliant writer. I'm in love with Ella Risbridger's mind! -- Jessica Stanley, author of Consider Yourself Kissed
While it may seem like romantic fiction is having a moment, Ella Risbridger proves that romance books have always been culturally important in this love letter to our literary love. From romantic tropes to romantic leads, Heathcliff to Darcy (Austen's and Bridget's), the author of Midnight Chicken brings her characteristic passion and knowledge to a much-loved but often overlooked subject that not only considers what makes us love romantic fiction, but what makes us love at all? -- Chrissy Ryan * Stylist *
This is a cosy, clever treat of a book! To use Ella's words, it gave me a "warm buttered toast" feeling. I shall continue to read ~silly novels by lady novelists~ on repeat. Imagine listening to someone at a dinner party tell you about the amazing book they just read. This is that book -- Emma Gannon, author of OLIVE
Clever, comforting, sharp and funny, In Love with Love is as enjoyable and compelling as the most satisfying romance - the happiest coupling of subject and author -- Lisa Owens, author of Not Working
Risbridger writes about the romance novel with the care and attention of a romantic hero. This book has the intimacy of a midnight conversation with a close friend and the thrill and discovery of a new lover. I look forward to pressing it into many hands in the future -- Sarvat Hasin, author of The Giant Dark
I have such a big crush on this book! Fascinating, fun and flirty - just how I like my romances. It's so delightful to have someone as passionate and smart as Risbridger celebrating the belittled and beloved world of romance novels. To take silliness seriously is no small feat, and In Love with Love does it with zest and wonder -- Billy Lindon, author of Double Booked
What an utter delight for readers - and writers - of love stories. To read this is to throw the windows of your soul right open - to nod along, cheer, dance, and yearn for more. I swallowed this book whole. Full of warmth and - you guessed it, love - this is an astute, thoughtful and literary exploration of a subject that is often regarded as the opposite; there's nobody I'd rather read on matters of the heart, and this book covers ALL of those matters. It'll stay on my "books on writing" shelf forevermore, underlined and dog-eared and beloved, just like the stories she writes about. Long live kissing books, and all hail Ella -- CLAIRE DAVERLEY, author of Talking at Night
With warmth and wit [Ella Risbridger] examines familiar tropes and stereotypes, delving into the themes, dynamics and relationships that define the genre. Her enthusiasm for the topic is infectious, and her insightful commentary reveals why romantic fiction remains so enduringly popular and relevant. This book makes an ideal gift for the friend who tears up at movies, adores dissecting character dynamics and proudly wears their heart on their sleeve. Her analysis is overflowing with literary references, so keep a notebook handy to jot down new titles for your reading list as you flick through this book's addictive pages. In Love with Love will make you want to get cosy and read romantic literature all winter long * Press Association *
ISBN: 9781399749220
Dimensions: 216mm x 140mm x 28mm
Weight: 397g
288 pages