The Golden Rule
Lessons in living from a doctor of ageing
Format:Paperback
Publisher:Penguin Books Ltd
Publishing:12th Jun '25
£10.99
This title is due to be published on 12th June, and will be despatched as soon as possible.
This paperback is available in another edition too:
- Hardback£16.99(9780241593516)

A new way to think about ageing - for ourselves and the people we love. With warmth and wisdom, geriatrician Dr Lucy Pollock shows us how
'The Golden Rule is part manifesto for better integration and appreciation between generations, and part reflection on a career spent looking after our elders, [. . .] with good humour, sanity, wisdom and quite a few jokes' The Times
'From the first pages, the impression you have is how much you’d want Pollock as your medical practitioner. . . this warm and compassionate book is part reflection, part rallying cry to set in place a better society for older people' Daily Mail
'Beautiful and wise, filled with characters I know living through situations I recognise, filtered through the kindness of thoughtful storytelling' Kathryn Mannix, author of With the End in Mind
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Plan A: stay young forever
Plan B: read this book
Today, we are living longer lives and have choices now as never before about how we will age.
What will make us happy?
What frightens us, and what might allay our fears?
What changes, made right now, will help us to flourish?
In The Golden Rule, Dr Lucy Pollock shares lessons she has learned in the thirty years of working with older people and their family and friends.
She explores problems that can be fixed with tests and tablets, and problems that require a different sort of medicine.
These engrossing stories explain what she has been taught about impossible families, important decisions, becoming older without children, sexuality, race, love, and living with uncertainty.
The Golden Rule is part manifesto for better integration and appreciation between generations, and part reflection on a career spent looking after our elders, [. . .] with good humour, sanity, wisdom and quite a few jokes . . . her messages are clear and I’d love to see them headline every statement on health policy . . . [Lucy] offers advice not just on how to live to a ripe old age but also how to enjoy it * The Times *
Compassionate and wise, it makes for empowering reading * Observer *
If you are old or care for someone old, or indeed intend to become old one day yourself, please read this beautifully written book. With wisdom, clarity and kindness, Lucy Pollock generously shares what she has learned from caring for elderly people professionally and in her own life. Rich with everyday stories, The Golden Rule will inspire you to think differently about your own ageing and everyone else's. * John Launer *
The impression you have is how much you’d want Pollock as your medical practitioner * Daily Mail *
Beautiful and wise, filled with characters I know living through situations I recognise, filtered through the kindness of thoughtful storytelling * Kathryn Mannix, author of With the End in Mind *
ISBN: 9781405953245
Dimensions: 198mm x 130mm x 22mm
Weight: 248g
352 pages