I Came to Slay
The Black Girl’s Guide to Conquering Every Battle (Finding Peace, Boundaries for Black Women)
Format:Paperback
Publisher:Mango Media
Published:11th Mar '24
Should be back in stock very soon

Step boldly into your power—find happiness, healing, and peace on your own terms.
Looking for self help for black girls that truly speaks to your journey? I Came to Slay: The Black Girl’s Guide to Conquering Every Battle by Elizabeth Leiba is your empowering affirmation guide for girls’ happiness and self-worth. This book is a celebration of strong women who heal, offering practical wisdom and inspiration for personal development for Black women at every stage of life.
Elizabeth Leiba delivers real talk on self improvement for Black women, teaching you how to set and protect boundaries for Black women, nurture your mental and emotional well-being, and find peace in a world that often tries to dim your light. Each chapter is packed with affirmations, actionable advice, and stories of resilience—reminding you that you are powerful, worthy, and capable of conquering any challenge.
Inside, you’ll find:
- Affirmation guide for girls’ happiness and confidence.
- Strategies for personal development and self improvement for Black women.
- Guidance on setting healthy boundaries for Black women.
- Inspiration from strong women who heal and uplift others.
If you’re seeking empowering affirmation books for Black women—like Emotional Self-Care for Black Women, Million Dollar Action, or The New Black Woman—you’ll find inspiration and practical guidance in I Came to Slay. This essential companion will help you embrace your strength, cultivate peace, and approach every challenge with confidence, joy, and unapologetic self-love.
Praise for Elizabeth Leiba
“What a gift to Black women in the workplace! Leiba’s work elevates and amplifies a conversation that is long overdue. With fierce, unapologetic vulnerability, Leiba unpacks the complexity and nuance of this sometimes debilitating trope impacting so many Black women. For those committed to challenging stereotypes and enhancing workplace inclusion, this book is a must-read.“
—Dana Brownlee, Forbes Careers senior contributor
“In I’m Not Yelling, Elizabeth Leiba sheds light on some of the common, and troubling challenges Black women face in the workplace. She offers actionable steps that we, as Black women, can take to beat the odds stacked against us. This guide will support us in obtaining long-term success and peace.“
—Aiko Bethea, Esq., author and founder of RARE Coaching & Consulting
“Elizabeth Leiba is the voice first-generation Caribbean immigrant professional women have been patiently waiting for!! She has answers for the overachievers who are scared to ask questions because they are expected to have all the answers. Whew, this one hits different! Everyone talks about authenticity, but Elizabeth is showing how using your authentic voice and ditching the code switching can be a path to freedom and achievement. I AM YELLING —IF YOU NEED A SIGN TO READ THE BOOK, HERE IT IS !“
—Sue-Ann Robinson, Esq., lead counsel for Ben Crump Law in Ft. Lauderdale
“Leiba’s work is a strategic tool for Black women navigating corporate America and their allies working to create supportive environments. I’m Not Yelling is the guide you mark with highlights and get out of your purse at work to address difficult conversations. It’s the literary sister circle you need to find the strength to get back up on the days you feel unsupported and alone. Personally, I look forward to reading her book and applying the ideas to tackle systems of injustice.“
—Qaadirah Abdur-Rahim, Chief Equity Officer, City of Atlanta
“This book is a true masterpiece! It speaks to every aspect of a Black woman’s journey, empowering her at every step. From building wealth to owning unshakeable confidence—all while prioritizing self-care—this book is a must-read for anyone ready to commit to success and show up boldly. If you’re ready to slay and succeed, this book is for you.“
—Netta Jenkins, CEO of Aerodei and author of The Inclusive Organization: Real Solutions, Impactful Change, and Meaningful Diversity
“Black women everywhere are renegotiating their relationships with self, work, media, and society at large. As overwhelming as it sometimes feels, we do have the power of choice; we can fall victim to the fray, or we can slay anyway. In I Came to Slay, Elizabeth Leiba reminds us that within ourselves (and in each other), we have everything we need to live a vibrant life. Don’t miss this timely and enjoyable read.“
—Tara Jaye Frank, author of The Waymakers: Clearing the Path to Workplace Equity with Competence and Confidence
ISBN: 9781684817191
Dimensions: 216mm x 140mm x 10mm
Weight: unknown
230 pages