The Skinny

"One of the most vulnerable memoirs I've ever read, Jonathan Wells' Skinny is the story of surviving the long, brutal gauntlet toward manhood that many boys who grew up in the 1970s and;80s endured. An important cautionary tale illuminating the devastating, lifelong harm caused by rigid gender rules and the parents who try to enforce them."--Bill Clegg, author of Portrait of an Addict as a Young Man and he End of the Day The Skinny is a poignant account of what it is like to grow up as a diminutive boy in a world that prefers its men big and strong. In precise and poetic prose, Jonathan Wells explores the intersection of wealth, sexuality, and body image, peeling back the glittering layers of privilege, searching for his father's approval, and examining the assumptions made about male size in a culture of toxic masculinity. Ultimately, The Skinny is an illuminating memoir of one man's search for meaning, acceptance and love.--Adrienne Brodeur, author of Wild Game: My Mother, Her Lover and Me Here's the skinny on The Skinny. Wells has written a memoir that's lean without being gaunt, rawboned without being fleshless. It's an elegant work of curving contours and sharp-edged insight that captures a world long gone in voluptuous prose that nonetheless, is delightfully devoid of flab or excess.--Allen Kurzweil, author of Whipping Boy: The Forty-Year Search for My Twelve-Year Old Bully Jonathan Wells was small as a child--short, but also quite thin. That trait, the way others reacted to it, and its nonconformity with perceived male norms led to a painful chain reaction of events...The Skinny is gripping in its wonderful articulation of an underrepresented perspective on masculinity. --Foreword Review Jonathan Wells's extraordinary coming-of-age memoir, The Skinny, is not only startling and heartbreaking, but each page seems somehow even more riveting and moving than the last. If you want the skinny - I mean, the real skinny - about growing up in a male body in this country it's time you read this deeply compelling and eminently wise new book.--David St. John, author of The Last Troubadour Layer by layer, Jonathan Wells unravels the father-son knot in ways both troubling and uplifting. I was gripped by The Skinny, a remarkable portrait of the most tangled of relationships, written with a poet's eye and grace.--Roger Cohen, The Girl from Human Street: A Jewish Family Odyssey With a poet's grace, Jonathan Wells has written a harrowing memoir about growing up severely underweight, about surviving sexual abuse by a schoolmaster--and about his tyrannical father's determination to transform his son's body into his own ideal of masculinity. The Skinny is a deeply haunting account of the lasting effects of emotional and physical bullying. I couldn't put it down.--Besty Bonner, The Book of Atlantis Black