Chinese Parents Don't Say I Love You
A Memoir of Food, Family and Finding Love
Format:Paperback
Publisher:Elliott & Thompson Limited
Published:5th Feb '26
Should be back in stock very soon
This paperback is available in another edition too:
- Hardback£16.99(9781783968855)

A FINANCIAL TIMES BEST SUMMER BOOK
LoveReading’s BestBooks of the Year 2025
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A deliciously nourishing memoir of food, family and finding love…
‘A world-spanning love story.’ Rebecca May Johnson
‘A wonderfully heartwarming memoir with lots of foodie insights.’ Rachel Khoo
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After a thirteen-year relationship ends, food journalist Candice Chung find herself losing both her first love and her favourite dining partner. So when her retired Cantonese parents volunteer as her new plus-ones, she must decide whether to keep the peace – or finally confront the distance that’s grown between them.
As a new romance stirs and old wounds heal, Candice begins to learn that some truths can’t be spoken – only tasted . . .
This is a deliciously nourishing story of food, family and finding new love.
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‘A touching, poignant love story… so vivid and flavoursome.’Huma Qureshi, author of How We Met
‘Packed with heart, humour, and those tender moments around a dinner table.’ Angela Hui, author of Takeaway
‘Will undo anyone whose love language is food.’ Tara Wigley, co-author of Ottolenghi SIMPLE
‘A real and delightful surprise – and also very funny.’ Ella Risbridger, author of Midnight Chicken (& Other Recipes Worth Living For)
‘Chung's prose is as deliciously playful as her palate' Leah Hazard, author of Womb
‘Chung’s poetic prose blazes on the pages’ Jessie Tu, author of The Honeyeater
‘A wonderfully heart warming memoir with lots of foodie insights.’ Rachel Khoo
‘A world-spanning love story, a book of philosophy via the dinner table, a tender portrait of family trying to communicate ... a vital new literary voice’ Rebecca May Johnson, author of Small Fires
‘Hilarious, heartfelt and incredibly perceptive ... Candice Chung’s memoir stayed with me like the warmest of memories’ LeeTran Lam, Should You Really Eat That? podcast
‘A touching, poignant love story ... at times heartbreaking, complicated and bittersweet, but also, uplifting and full of tenderness’ Huma Qureshi, author of Things We Do Not Tell the People We Love
‘A comforting hotpot of a book. Every page offers a new surprising morsel about connection and choice; always nourishing, always delightful, always tender’ Benjamin Law, author of The Family Law
‘A delicious and moving treatise about love and longing, and all the ways families express or hide these life-sustaining things’ Alice Pung OAM, author of Unpolished Gem and One Hundred Days
‘Shows us how love and releationships can be influenced by food culture, and how our dinner tables have shaped the way we understand the world, as well as ourselves.’ Xiaolu Guo
‘Beautifully written, lean and nourishing, Candice Chung’s Chinese Parents Don't Say I Love You is an astute, moving and often amusing memoir that does a profoundly affecting dive into how rituals around family dining are used as a vehicle for expressing what we really want to say, and how we really feel’ LoveReading
‘A thoughtful and compelling pastiche of fragments, lists, and literary reflections, Chung’s memoir revolves around her personal history with food, family and culture, but also around writing: Deborah Levy, Nora Ephron, Helen Garner and Craig Claiborne are all name-checked, and their influence is felt throughout.’ Steph Harmon, Guardian Australia
'A delightful portrait of love expressed through the delicious business of eating out together. I adored this book’s wit and wisdom, and Chung's capacity to delve into the complexities of the relationship between the first and second generation with such tenderness and lightness of touch. A funny, generous, and joyously relatable memoir.' Chitra Ramaswamy, author of Homelands
'Packed with heart, humour, and those tender moments around a dinner table, Candice manages to capture the everyday comforts and the sometimes unsaid things that bring us together over meals. A must-read.'Angela Hui, author of TAKEAWAY: Stories From a Childhood Behind the Counter
ISBN: 9781783968879
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336 pages