Comparisonitis
How to Stop Comparing Yourself To Others and Be Genuinely Happy
Format:Paperback
Publisher:BenBella Books
Published:20th May '21
£12.99
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2022 NATIONAL INDIE EXCELLENCE AWARDS WINNER — SELF-HELP: GENERAL • BEST INDIE BOOK AWARD WINNER — SELF-HELP
Multiple bestselling author Melissa Ambrosini (Mastering Your Mean Girl, Open Wide, PurposeFULL) and host of the #1 podcast The Melissa Ambrosini Show puts the condition of Comparisonitis under the microscope, unpacking the symptoms, and offering practical tips you can start using immediately to break the cycle of comparison, free up mental bandwidth, and live life on your own terms.
When you cure Comparisonitis, you will…
• Be free to live your life for you (no one else)
• Feel peace from within
• Experience genuine happiness
• Truly appreciate your body and life
• Free up SO much mental bandwidth for things you LOVE
• Quit beating yourself up
• Have more energy to go after the things that truly matter to you
• Experience a radical shift towards authenticity
• Be a better friend, partner, parent, family member, colleague, human
• Free yourself from expectations
• Unleash the courage to go after your dreams
• Unstifle your creativity
• Feel more liberated than you've ever felt in your life
• And much more
It creeps up on you without warning—perhaps while chatting with a friend, scrolling through social media, or even just while walking down the street.
All it takes is the hint of someone doing or having something you perceive as "better" than you, and it hits. A feeling takes over—intense, blinding, gutting. Your brain starts spinning with toxic thoughts about yourself (or others), and you're left feeling ashamed, guilty, and even worthless.
It's called comparisonitis. And if you've suffered from it, you're NOT alone.
Comparisonitis is a contagious, socially transmitted condition that occurs when you compare yourself to others so frequently and fiercely that you're left paralyzed, with your confidence in tatters and your self-worth plummeting. It may sound trivial, but this affliction can have serious adverse effects on our mental health, leading to depression, anxiety, overthinking, and regret.
To make matters...
“Since Melissa refers to people who have recovered from comparisonitis as ‘unicorns,’ I suppose that makes this book a sort of unicorn training manual. I’m so grateful that such a manual has arrived! It’s been infinitely helpful to me. My hope is that the same holds true for you.”
—Gaby Bernstein, #1 New York Times bestselling author
“Comparisonitis is real. It can block us from our potential, our passion, and even our purpose. The impact it’s having on people’s mental health needs to be addressed, and this is the book to do that and protect future generations from comparisonitis.”
—Jay Shetty, #1 New York Times bestselling author
“Comparisonitis is a wonderful, honest book for one of the most real human experiences—comparing ourselves to others and feeling like we aren't good enough. Melissa offers a real, practical approach to healing and realizing that we are worthy of the life that we desire.”
—Sahara Rose, bestselling author and host of The Highest Self podcast
ISBN: 9781950665860
Dimensions: 229mm x 152mm x 19mm
Weight: 312g
280 pages