Episodes in Disguise of a Marriage

Richard Grossinger author

Format:Paperback

Publisher:Inner Traditions Bear and Company

Publishing:31st Dec '26

£30.00

This title is due to be published on 31st December, and will be despatched as soon as possible.

Episodes in Disguise of a Marriage cover

A story of love, sex, and the evolving mystery of intimacy

• A fifty-year journey through love, desire, and transformation that balances storytelling with philosophical inquiry and cultural analysis

• Offers a male perspective on sexuality, marriage, and emotional vulnerability, with contributions from the author’s wife to deepen the relational narrative

• Draws on craniosacral therapy, t’ai chi ch’uan, and psychic work to examine how relationships reflect the deeper forces that shape identity and consciousness

In this deeply personal narrative, Richard Grossinger documents sixty years of his relationship with poet Lindy Hough, tracing the arc of their partnership from youthful idealism through the alchemical transformations of marriage, parenthood, infidelity, and aging. Exploring the forces that shape intimacy and drawing on decades of esoteric and psychological study, Grossinger explores the archetypes of love and transformation that emerge and evolve in long-term partnerships.

Written primarily from a male perspective, the nonfiction novel explores male sexuality and fantasy. The author shares meditations on marriage as a spiritual crucible, reflecting deeply on the libidinal forces that animate human experience. A chapter by Hough, along with her editorial interventions throughout, offers a female counter-voice to complement the narrative and enrich the relational dynamic that underpins the story.

In exploring the paradoxes of eros and the long shadow of desire, Episodes in Disguise of a Marriage presents the inner logic of love and the psychosexual depth of creation.

“Episodes in Disguise of a Marriage is an epic tale of a spectacularly complex and long-lived relationship that fundamentally transgresses the bipolar norms of literary and cinematic expectation for narratives about relationships.” * Jonathan Zap, author of Crossing the Event Horizon *
“Richard Grossinger has fashioned a planet-wide spiritual life by plunging into Earth’s wisdom traditions. . . . He offers a celebration of our erotic desire to hear each other’s full story, to touch the infinite presence of the other, and to feel the way in which this mystery of attraction drives the evolution of the universe.” * Brian Thomas Swimme, author of The Universe Is a Green Dragon *
“For years, I’ve loved Richard Grossinger’s ideas and books. They’ve inspired me, moved me, and shaped my own thinking. More spectacularly than any other writer I know, Richard merges visionary insight with raw personal honesty. I like to imagine he’s a visitor from the future, here to educate us on how to become true humans. In Episodes in Disguise of a Marriage, he offers his signature dazzling meditations on mythology, politics, spirituality, and cultural history. But there’s even more, too: an intimate chronicle of love, memory, and the slow-motion shapeshifting of deeply lived relationships. . . . It's a wild, vulnerable, fiercely intelligent ride.” * Rob Brezsny, author of Pronoia Is the Antidote to Paranoia: How the Whole World Is Conspiring to Sho *
“Episodes in Disguise of a Marriage is an unfiltered account of a revolutionary relationship where openness and truth are often painful but also liberating. I was astounded by the meandering, ingenuous course of this journey and its enduring survival where both husband and wife, man and woman, are on equal grounds, true literary partners in search of eros in and out of the forever bed. That their marital bond has survived for decades is an acknowledgment that 'pledging one’s troth' does not have to follow traditional prescriptions but can open the heart to an extraordinary commitment.” * Laura Chester, author of Shovels & Chandeliers *
“Having escaped the curse of a suicidal birth family, Richard Grossinger has fashioned a planet-wide spiritual life by plunging into Earth’s wisdom traditions, including alchemy, cranial osteopathy, Breema . . . tarot. Over six decades he has shared his wisdom in a series of classics, the latest of which is Episodes in Disguise of a Marriage, perhaps his most profound work, certainly his bravest, in that it faces the tangled, dangerous, cosmic adventure of mystical quest via erotic fulfillment. . . . Distancing himself from the prurience of much of contemporary society, he offers a celebration of our erotic desire to hear each other’s full story, to touch the infinite presence of the other, and to feel the way in which this mystery of attraction drives the evolution of the universe.” * Brian Thomas Swimme, author of The Universe Is a Green Dragon *
“Episodes in Disguise of a Marriage is an intimate look at the workings of a multi-decade relationship, woven with beauty, passion, profound loss, and growth on all levels.” * Salicrow, author of Jump Girl *

ISBN: 9798888504864

Dimensions: 241mm x 165mm x 41mm

Weight: 1322g

816 pages